No matter why you decided to pick up chess, Congratulations, and Welcome!
I played my first chess tournaments in 1995-96. While I started teaching beginners as early as 1997 (when I was not much past 1000 USCF), I didn’t become a full-time chess teacher and coach until 2005 (I had surpassed 1800 by then).
I’ve seen and learned a great deal over the years, and I’d like to share some of my best advice.
How you perform against friends and family means nothing.
Just because you can beat your dad, your friends, or your co-workers in chess says absolutely nothing about how well or poorly you play the game. The only way to know where you stand in the pecking order is to play in official (rated) tournaments. And no, online ratings don’t mean anything either, whether you play on ICC, lichess, or anywhere else. Online is just practice.
Expect to lose a lot of games. A lot.
No one becomes a strong chess player without losing hundreds, no, thousands, of games. People who say otherwise are lying. The sooner you accept this, the better off you’ll be.
Related to this: genius is exceedingly rare in chess. Unless your name is Kasparov, Anand, Kramnik, or Ivanchuk, you are not a chess genius and your kid isn’t either. If someone tells you otherwise, they’re only after your money.
Academic achievement and chess aptitude? Probably unrelated.
I’ve already written about this here. I’m not a scientist or a researcher, but have worked with thousands of students over the years, age 3 and up.
Endgames are overrated.
Most games between non-experts (97+% of the chess population!) will be decided before the endgame is reached. You should know some basics, but don’t spend more than 20-25% of your study time on this phase of the game.
Openings are underrated.
Don’t listen to people who advise you to ignore openings! Effective opening study is well worth your time, even as a new player.
The opening gets a bad rap because it is often presented very poorly. That’s the fault of the material, not the phase of the game itself! I recently reviewed a book that presents the opening pretty well for inexperienced players.
I have also long believed that openings can drive your rating improvement, in large part because so many of your adversaries are too lazy to work at it.
You can’t play like a chess computer 100% of the time, so a lot of its post-mortem suggestions will not help you in real life.
Experienced players: are there any other general tips I didn’t mention? Leave a comment!